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Susan Louise Iacovou

Altrincham WA15
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Susan Louise Iacovou

Altrincham WA15
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My Approach

At the core of my practice are existential ideas e.g. the fact that as human beings we all face many of the same challenges including anxiety and sadness, getting on with other people, death and loss, loneliness and isolation, freedom, choice and responsibility, trauma and pain, and how to live in a meaningful way. The difficult times we live in at present, where the threat of new pandemics, the reality of wars, climate change and the increasing cost of living can remind us of our vulnerability and the vulnerability of our loved ones, can make it difficult to succeed in our careers, to maintain strong relationships with family and friends, to stay fit and healthy and to take control of our lives.

The existential approach is based on the principle that you are the expert as far as your life is concerned and that it is possible for you, with support, to make sense of the problems and difficulties you face (no matter how big) and to experience your life to the full – to live in a way that feels real.

I will work with you to explore your situation and to:

Examine the things that are really important to you – the things that really make your life meaningful;

Identify behaviours, attitudes and ways of looking at the world that help you to achieve the things that are really important in your life, and those that get in the way of achieving those things;

Enable you to make your own choices about the way you live, based on what you discover.

Existential therapy is increasingly popular with individuals and couples who want to address fundamental issues such as how to make the most of life, how to live harmoniously with other people and how to address life’s challenges and traumas.

About Me

As an integrative Counselling psychologist and therapist trained in a range of therapy styles I work with clients to build an understanding of the issues or challenges they face and the way in which their unique needs, personality, values and ideas about the world affect their ability to address them. Each client’s therapy is different, with the form it takes being agreed through a process of gentle exploration and confirmation of what works best for you. This flexible approach means that we are not restricted to a ‘one-size-fits-all’ perspective, recognizing that your preferences and the effectiveness of the therapy is more important than theory, and taking into account the fact that research demonstrates that it is the relationship between client and therapist that produces the best outcomes.

I work with

  • Companies
  • Couples
  • Individuals
  • Private healthcare referrals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

There are a number of different types of anxiety including what we might call normal anxiety over things like exams or presentations, anxiety that attempts to distract us from things we don't want to face, and anxiety that we could describe as existential (universal anxiety that we all have about things like meaninglessness, death and loneliness). Sometimes we experience a mixture of all three of these types of anxiety. I will work with you to establish how anxiety impacts you, ways in which you might work through it or if this is not possible, ways you can live with it more fruitfully.
Depression can affect anyone at any time of life. It can be a reaction to difficult experiences such as bereavement, loss of a relationship or a a chronic illness. Alternatively, it can be difficult to pin down the reasons why you feel low and demotivated and therefore difficult to understand and explain. I offer a safe place where you can explore your feelings of despair and hopelessness without fear of judgement. The ultimate aim is to help you understand why you are feeling the way you are and to enable you to live the way you want to live.
Chronic illness and pain can be extremely difficult to cope with. It often takes away things that you see as core to your identity such as your ability to parent the way you want to parent or to exercise and enjoy life the way you used to. It can seem as though no one understands what you are experiencing and even make you wonder if life is worth living. Learning to thrive in such situations is difficult. I work with clients suffering in this way to help them cope with their situations, and find new ways of seeing the world and their place in it given their changed circumstances.
Online therapy is provided via a Professional Zoom Account (which is like Skype or FaceTime but more secure, reliable and easy for you to use). I have been providing online therapy for 14 years and find it is as effective as face to face therapy. It does of course require you to have access to a safe, comfortable space where you can talk privately.  And having a cup of tea or coffee handy is also recommended!  
I am the author of numerous journal articles and book chapters on post traumatic stress and resilience. Trauma can occur from major one-off life events or from a series of smaller events that collectively impact on your wellbeing. Feelings of anxiety and inability to relax, flashbacks, nightmares, avoidance of things that remind you of the trauma, are all common issues faced by those suffering from PTS and can feel totally overwhelming. I can help you to understand what has happened to you and to develop ways of dealing with the impact it has had on your wellbeing.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Existential Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • Abuse
  • Addiction
  • Adoption
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Bereavement
  • Bulimia
  • Cancer
  • Chronic Illness
  • Employment Difficulties
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Types of sessions

  • Online Therapy
  • Telephone Therapy

Altrincham Office

Hale Village Therapy Centre
210a Ashley Road
Hale
Altrincham WA15 9SN
UK

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UKCP College

  • Universities Training College (UTC)
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Susan Louise Iacovou

Altrincham WA15

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