Lisa Sanfilippo, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Lisa Sanfilippo

London W1K
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Lisa Sanfilippo, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Lisa Sanfilippo

London W1K
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My Approach

I am not the type of therapist who sits mute throughout our time together. Our session will be a conversation. I'll listen, clarify, ask questions, help you explore your options, take different perspectives, and sometimes I'll help you find a new and different set of possibilities. I will notice and help you to become more aware of what is happening in your body as you explore your life in therapy, because if you change your mind and your body disagrees- guess which one wins!

I sometimes offer simple awareness exercises to do with breath and movement. We may also work with creativity (imagery, drawing if you find it useful, writing or journalling) and you may find you enjoy some resources to take into your daily life, although there is never any obligation to work in ways that don't resonate with you. I was a yoga therapist and yoga teacher for many years overlapping with my work as a psychotherapist, so my understanding of how we breathe, experience our felt-sense and how we move is an important part of what I offer you. If this is difficult to approach at first, please know there is no pre-requisite, nothing you need to be good at- you don't need to have done any specific exercise, practice yoga or anything- although people who do find they resonate easily with my approach. Working with mind and body together can be called 'somatic psychotherapy' and I'm well versed in working with various types of trauma as well as anxiety, depression, relationship issues, work conflicts and sleep, a main area of expertise.

About Me

Even if you start therapy to help you out of a dark or difficult time, we can see it as great gift that you give to yourself. You can learn a lot about yourself, about others and ultimately about living life with more lightness and enjoyment. Working together in therapy means getting curious about what you learnt growing up and in your that shaped who you are now. We'll explore your world-view, your assumptions and even your body's responses to what happens in life.

We'll learn about how you manage your world in ways that *work* for you, as well as where these ways of relating are causing pain or limiting you. In our work, we'll find how you can unblock and release those old response patterns that don't work anymore. The goal is to find new ways of seeing and being that help you to be more at-ease and authentically yourself and in relation to friends, family, work and other important people and situations.

I believe every one of us has a soul-nature and way of being that works well for us and it's our job to work with that. I work with an integrative palette of approaches and tools, and share them with you in our conversations. A good deal of our work will involve working with how the thoughts and emotions land in our physical selves and our nervous systems.

I work with

  • Companies
  • Individuals
  • Private healthcare referrals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

Whether abuse is mental, physical or sexual in nature, we can work together to help you feel safer, more connected and able to move forward in your relationships. We work on helping your body, your nervous system, your mind and your soul, even, to recover. This may involve finding a clearer sense of boundaries, the ability to say yes and to say no in ways that feel safe, to learn to move towards and move away from situations when you need to. While we can and often do see results, sometimes the deeper healing can take time- and we can be curious and patient together to help you recover.
Feeling anxious often isn't just an experience in your mind- it can take over your body. This is where understanding not just WHY, how your body responds to stress, and how to work with it can be pure gold. I love helping you come out of thought loops and spirals into a sense that you can manage the challenges that life offers you. We'll work not just with your mind, but your body and nervous system to help you feel calmer and enjoy more ease.
We can work together on your ways of relating to others- parents, children, siblings, work colleagues, significant others- or even your ways of approching dating in the modern world. I enjoy helping you find ways to identify and express your preferences, find your best ways being heard and of listening, even when it's difficult. A big part of this is understanding what healthy boundaries mean to you, and ways to relate with honesty and safety. This is an area of work that I enjoy deeply and invite you to explore.
Talking about sex and sexuality can be really dificult! But I'm not ashamed to talk about it with you- and to help you understand how to bring sexual aspects of your being into balance with the rest of you as a person. Sexuality is a big part of our humanity and our relationships. Finding a loving and respectful way to relate to this part or yourself is important to feeling vital, alive and whole. If you're using sex as a way to numb yourself, avoiding it, or using sex to try to get love and it's not working- we can dig deeper and help you find what you're really looking for. If you're in a relationship and it's difficult to relate to your partner sexually, you can explore ways of showing up more authentically.
I can work with you on issues to do with sexual trauma or shock trauma from sudden events whether they were recent or in your past. This involves working with the symtpoms you're experiencing and helping you to heal from them. At times you may not even need to go into the details of the events, but work with feeling safer in the here-and-now.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Transpersonal Psychotherapist

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy

London Office

Grosvenor Street
Mayfair
Please book an initial consult via lisasanfilippo. com
London W1K 3JN

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Cost:

£125

Concession:

£115/£105/£95

London Office

Harley Street/ Cavendish Square
Please book an initial consult via lisasanfilippo. com
London W1G 0PH

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Cost:

£125

Concession:

£115/105/95

Office

Zoom/ Online Consultations
Please book an initial consult via lisasanfilippo. com

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UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
Lisa Sanfilippo

Lisa Sanfilippo

London W1K

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